It’s great when you don’t even have to try to create a nice narrative for a blog post. For example, this time around, life has offered me a great circular composition for this very post. You see, I came up with this post when I was sitting in my quad last week. No special event at all, but it was completely empty for the first time in months (aside from my packed suitcase on the bed opposite mine). Specifically, last time the quad looked like that was eight months ago, when I spent my first night on campus. I had just arrived in the US and I was sitting in the exact same way but with a feeling of skräckblandad förtjusning, best translated into English as equal parts fright and delight. It was a crisis; it was a beautiful crisis.

When I graduated High School a few months before that, I had a feeling of crisis too and now that I get to celebrate a bunch of my friends’ graduations this year (both here in Sweden and in New Jersey), I feel it might be timely to write about how I try to deal with it, and taking leaps in life that really matter. While I don’t pretend to know all the answers, I think I’ve created a little theory that at least fits “well-enough” to be useful for me and perhaps others as well. So, allow me to present the Sten Sjöberg Certified Four-Step Leap-Taking Process™ (if nothing else, I think the fourth step is actually worth reading): Continue reading